Set up the agreement

  • Ask the participant which garment options, crop, pose, background, and voters they are comfortable including.
  • Write one neutral decision dimension, such as more formal for the named event, rather than best body or most attractive.
  • Allow flat-lay garment images, cropped outfit sections, drawings, or text descriptions when a modeled photo is not wanted.
  • Set a voting close that leaves the participant enough time to choose independently and prepare without pressure.

Evaluation rubric

  • Eligible voters select only among the participant-approved options.
  • Comments remain about the written event preference and exclude bodies, identities, cost, and personal worth.
  • The vote closes at the agreed time and is presented as group preference rather than an instruction.

Edge cases to decide before starting

  • A voter wants another option: the participant decides whether to add it in a new vote rather than changing the current ballot.
  • The event expectation changes: close and create a new question instead of reinterpreting old votes.
  • An image unintentionally includes another person or identifying detail: remove it from voting and replace only with the participant's approval.

Privacy checks

  • Use a neutral background and crop mirrors, mail, screens, badges, addresses, and other people.
  • Do not require face, body, location, event invitation, price tags, brand labels, or receipts.
  • Delete or retain the image according to the participant's choice and never treat the winning option as publication consent.

Ways to adapt this template

  • Vote on two flat-lay color combinations without showing a person.
  • Use text descriptions for accessories, themes, or levels of formality.
  • Ask which option fits a prewritten practical constraint rather than which looks better.

Safety and privacy standard

Apply the standard to “Which outfit should I wear to the event?”: participation stays voluntary, and people may pause, stop, or choose a safer and more accessible alternative without penalty. Never turn the activity into danger, humiliation, discrimination, sexual pressure, medical direction, illegal conduct, or financial coercion.

Collect only the least revealing proof needed for this page’s agreed rule. Remove unrelated people, messages, locations, notifications, and account details; private submission never authorizes wider sharing. Read Proovem’s complete editorial, safety, privacy, sourcing, and correction standards.

Sources and editorial note

Examples are editorial illustrations, not user testimonials. Each resource is reviewed against Proovem's private-by-default challenge principles.

Customize this challenge privately

Open the matching Proovem starter, review every field, and invite only the people who choose to participate.

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